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December 2003

A welcoming congregation that seeks to be a spiritual home to people of free faith regardless of race, sexual orientation, class, or any of the other differences that might separate us

SUNDAY MORNING PROGRAM SCHEDULE
ALL ARE WELCOME
Sunday School: 9:30 - 10:30 AM        OUUF Forum: 9:30 - 10:30 AM
Social Gathering 10:30 - 11:00 AM
Worship Service: 11:00 AM                     Child care: 10:45 - Noon
Care for the very youngest children available during services and forums

FROM THE MINISTER...

Anyone who does research for a sermon knows that one has to be careful about certain topics; sometimes the one who is most challenged and changed by a sermon is the preacher her or himself. Such is the case with my work on this year's Christmas sermon.

As you may know, liberation theology began as a school of thought that read the Christian scriptures through the eyes of the marginalized. Born among Roman Catholics in South and Central America, liberation theology has since been applied in many other cultures and religious traditions, but its central tenet remains the same: God/Love/Justice is on the side of the oppressed.

While I've been familiar with liberation theology and some of its proponents for some time, it only recently occurred to me to revisit the Christmas story solely through the eyes of the oppressed. Sure, most religious liberals - UU and otherwise - are disturbed by the rampant consumerism of the holidays. Long ago, many of us opted out of the annual rush to find the "right gift" for folks who already have all of their needs and many of their wants met.

And, I know of many a religious liberal for whom the holiday season is a time to donate to food banks and other charities. But a liberation theology Christmas dares us to move beyond helping the poor in the struggle for survival to joining the poor in the struggle for justice. As Mitch Snyder, the late advocate for the homeless in our nation's capitol used to say, liberation theology is not just about a handout, it's about a hand up.

Please don't get me wrong, I'm not suggesting that we not write an extra check or two this holiday season. The North Olmsted Food Pantry, Oberlin Community Services and Care & Share (Sandusky) are, each and all, worthy of our support. But if my return visit to liberation theology has shown me anything, it's that God/ Love/Justice is also about working to dismantle the systems and "programs" that either abandon or further dehumanize poor folks.

It was the early liberation theologians who said that the Christmas story is really the story of a homeless couple in crisis. And it was Howard Thurman who said that the work of Christmas really begins after the angels are stilled, the star is gone and the shepherds are back with their flocks. I say, let us resolve to be open to the nagging suspicion that both Thurman and the liberation theology crowd are right.

Peace,
DON AT KENDAL

The Kendal UU service is on the third Sunday of each month between September and June. We meet at 4:15 P.M. in Whittier Lounge. OUUFers are certainly welcome to join us.

Don

ADULT RE IS COMING IN JANUARY!

Starting Tuesday, January 6, and continuing each Tuesday in January, Don will facilitate the curriculum Articulating Your UU Faith. The course provides some historical and theological background, but also offers practical experience in discussing UUism and one's own beliefs. We'll meet in the dining room at Kendal at Oberlin, from 7-9 P.M. There is no cost for the course.

DON'S SCOPE AND SCHEDULE

Don is available for pastoral care and/or short-term counseling, in addition to his other activities. Feel free to contact him at 440-775-9989 or . Just a reminder that Friday is generally reserved for writing sermons and Monday is Don's day off.

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION

The holiday season began with a lively, truly inclusive Bread Service. Congratulations to all who made it so vital and original! It was good to relax and be together as a group sharing bread and beverages afterwards! We really do shine, don't we?!

I encourage you to incorporate the "Guest at Your Table" boxes and envelopes received during the Bread Service into your holiday activities. The people on the boxes are real and in grave need of the world becoming better informed about their lives. Please review the information given with your family members. These boxes and envelopes will be collected Sunday, December 14th during the December Holiday performance. Thank you.

Yes, shine on we will with the December Holiday program on the 14th at 11:00am! Many of us will be practicing during the 9:30 RE hour. For those of us who are not, the Forum will be lead by Karen Lapedis, Ohio Meadville District's RE consultant, and Tim Egan and Peg Tucker, OWL youth facilitators, who will be talking about the "Our Whole Lives" program, a comprehensive sexuality and life preparedness program for a spectrum of ages. Please come and learn more about this unique UUA and UCC developed program! As a Fellowship, we may be considering expanding what we offer to include the Kindergarten and 1st grade and the Fourth to Sixth grade curricula. Your input is valuable as we watch our RE program change and deepen its breadth.

Teen CHILI LUNCH to follow the Holiday performance at OECC. Don't let the fun end at noon, join us as we enjoy a meal cooked by the oldest RE class. It will be their pleasure to host a truly delightful meal for the holidays. Bring your family's own place settings and a folding table to change the setting from a staged winter landscape to a UU dining hall.

On December 21 and 28, there will be no RE classes. Childcare supervision will be provided.

CHRISTMAS EVE SERVICE
to be held at Olmstead UU Church at 7:00pm. If there are people interested in participating in the service itself, please contact Kim Peters at 776-0132 or . A tri-ministry event at North Olmstead's building. Come worship together. Car pooling could be arranged.

The second annual RE Open House will be held on Sunday, January 4, 2004 at 9:30am. This is an opportunity to move freely amongst the RE classes and experience first hand what our children and youth are learning. Meet in the larger service room with Kim before dispersing into the classes.

May we be merrily festive and worship together this season.

Kim Peters
Director of Religious Education
LENDING AN EAR

On every Sunday when Don is present, some members of the board will be available for 10-15 minutes after the service to listen to members/friends thoughts and concerns.

VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

Refreshments on Sunday morning are supplied by members and friends of the congregation. We invite you to please participate.

THIRD SUNDAY DONATIONS

Pursuant to nominations on the ballots collected at the November 14th Social Justice potluck, loose coin and currency in the collection plate on the third Sunday of each month will be donated to a worthy local cause. December's Third Sunday Collection will go to Oberlin Community Services. Note, you may direct coin and currency to the support of the Fellowship by using collection envelopes to be provided; or check.

Third Sunday Collections for 2004 will go to SEPA (January), Planned Parenthood (February), Boys & Girls Club (March), Lorain Free Clinic (April), Oberlin Race Relations Council (May), George Jones Farm (June).

GEOFFREY TAYLOR

We are sorrowed to announce the death of Geoffrey Taylor on Monday evening, November 24, 2003. He was a long-time member of the OUUF family, and will be missed. Our sympathies to his brothers Ran, in town, and Tom, who is coming in from Chicago. Further announcements as necessary will be made via the listserve distribution.

ADVENT WALK

Oberlin churches will join in an Advent Walk on Sunday, December 7, from 3:00 to 5:30pm, stopping at six churches. There will be prayers, carols, and readings at each congregation. The Walk will visit Sacred Heart, First Church, First United Methodist, Christ Church, Rust United Methodist and Mt. Zion Baptist. Folk will need to drive or bike from Sacred Heart into town. Refreshments at Mt. Zion; goodies from each congregations warmly accepted.

HELP NEEDED FOR SITE TEAM

The Site Team has been created to relieve the board of set-up/take-down chores. Now this team needs your help. We need team captains to be first in, last out; and team members to unload/load the storage shed, and for cleanup. This is NOT an every week commitment. Please contact Peg Tucker, 775-0301; or Katie Styer Katie.Styer AT Oberlin DOT edu, 775-0959.

WE ARE THE BODY OF THE CHURCH

Members or friends of OUUF who harbor a topic for a sermon or forum: OUUF needs your creative participation! Hymns, readings, music, etc. can be furnished by the Program Committee.

>TOGETHER IN FAITH:
JOURNEY INTO INCLUSIVENESS

The American Friends Service Committee's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Program in Ann Arbor MI is having an interfaith conference at Eastern Michigan University in 2004, "Together in Faith: Journey into Inclusiveness". They expect about 400-500 LGBT People of Faith. AFSC is looking for both financial and outreach support. AFSC speakers are available to supporting congregations, who are invited to be part of the conference resource fair. Web site: .

r>SEVEN UUs AMONG PLAINTIFFS
IN GAY MARRIAGE DECISION

Seven of the 14 plaintiffs in the Massachusetts gay marriage victory were Unitarian Universalists, according to a press release issued 11/18 by the UUA. Fourteen plaintiffs from five Massachusetts counties brought suit in 2001 when seven same-sex couples went to city and town halls to obtain marriage licenses. The Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court, highest bench in the state, famously found that the state had "failed to identify any constitutionally adequate reason for denying civil marriage to same-sex couples."

UUA President William G. Sinkford issued a statement saying, "We enthusiastically applaud today's ruling by the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts in favor of same-sex marriage. The Unitarian Universalist Association has a long-standing and deeply held religious commitment to support full equality for bisexual, gay, lesbian, and transgender people, and today's ruling is a significant step forward in guaranteeing that the rights enjoyed by heterosexual couples in [the state] are also available to its bisexual, gay, lesbian and transgender citizens." >UU CLERGY HELP CREATE
WITNESS FOR THE EARTH

On November 12, 2003, coinciding with the fifth anniversary of the US signing of the Kyoto Protocol, nearly three hundred individuals gathered at UN headquarters on Dag Hammarskjold Plaza to hold an interfaith Service of Repentance and Renewal focusing on global warming. Organized by a team of interfaith activists including the Rev. Fred Small, minister of First Parish in Littleton, MA, the service had strong representation from Unitarian Universalists and was uplifted by the homily given by the Rev Rosemary Bray McNatt, minister of the Fourth Universalist Church of New York City, who represented UUA President William G. Sinkford.

MISSION: The OUUF mission is to promote religious freedom with responsibility, to support each other with compassion, and to serve peace with justice.

COVENANT: We the members and friends of the OUUF covenant to live together in our quest for truth, love, social justice, and environmental responsibility. In this spirit of caring fellowship, we offer our combined gifts and resources.

BOARD NOTES

The collection taken one Sunday each month will be donated to a social action effort. The Social Justice Team will decide which social action effort will receive the collection. (See announcement above.)

Treasurer Virginia Erdy checked on our liability insurance and it seems that everyone who ought to be covered, is: Sunday School teachers, DRE, minister, board members.

The board supports Barbara Fuchsman's efforts to become a Commissioned Lay Leader. The fellowship will pay up to $500 to support her attendance at workshops. Barbara will write a piece for THE CHALICE (coming in January) inviting others to join her in becoming commissioned lay leaders.

The next board meeting will be 12/17 at 7:00 at the Peters/Vermue home. Visitors are welcome, and the right of OUUF members to participate in Board discussions is guaranteed in the Bylaws.

Sunday, December 7, 2003
A LIBERATION THEOLOGY CHRISTMAS
morning service -- 11:00 am
Reverend Don Rollins

Don will lead us in a look at the manger tale as interpreted through the lens of Latin American liberation theology. All are welcome.

WHEN DO WE BECOME GUILTY BYSTANDERS?
fellowship forum -- 9:30 am
Mathis Szykowski, Forum Leader
rescheduled from november

Recent books have re-opened consideration of the role of the Papacy during the Nazi regime. Mathis, a Holocaust survivor, will share reflections on personal responsibility in the face of evil. Mathis remained alive through his own initiative and those who gave him shelter at risk to themselves. Timed to coincide with the Library exhibit on the Holocaust. All are welcome.

As part of the Forum, the Committee on Ministry will distribute an important survey to all members and friends. The Committee will be sure that every OUUF member or friend who is not at the Dec 7 Forum will get a copy of the COM survey. Everyone's input is important! When you see the survey, you hopefully will see the need for all of us to respond. Committee on Ministry: Cindy Frantz, Keith Koenning, John Marshall


Sunday, December 14, 2003
R.E. PAGEANT
morning service -- 11:00 am
OUUF Sunday School

Kerry Langen is coordinating this holiday pageant. How does Christmas refract through the OUUF Sunday School consciousness, anyway? All are welcome.

OUR WHOLE LIVES
fellowship forum -- 9:30 am
Karen Lapedis, Peg Tucker, Tim Egan

Ohio-Meadville District RE consultant Karen Lapedis will join OUUF's own OWL instructors Peg and Tim to discuss the Our Whole Lives (OWL) sex-ed course, developed by the UUA and the UCC, that OUUF will sponsor for the Oberlin community in 2004. Brief presentations followed by discussion. We welcome Karen to the OUUF pulpit. All are welcome.


Sunday, December 21, 2003
WINTER SOLSTICE:
LIGHTS IN THE DARK
morning service -- 11:00 am
Molly Mitchell, Barb Fuchsman

As the days grow shorter and the nights longer, here in the north we welcome time for rest and quiet thinking. We need time in the dark, but at the solstice, the darkest time of the year, people have known for a long time that we also need to bring light and joy into the darkness. We will celebrate the turning of the year with hope, companionship, sharing, merrymaking and joy. All are welcome.

ADVERTISING & THE END OF THE WORLD
fellowship forum -- 9:30 am
Ed Vermue, Forum Leader

A 40-minute video that presents a compelling and accessible argument about advertising, consumerism and their impact on the earth's future. All are welcome.

Wednesday, December 24, 2003
INTERGENERATIONAL CELEBRATION
christmas eve -- 5pm
A Tri-Ministry Service
north olmsted uu church

Oberlin UUs are invited to join those from Sandusky and North Olmsted, for the intergenerational Christmas Eve service. We'll meet at the North Olmsted church, 5050 Porter Road, at 5:00 P.M. Contact Don if you need directions. There will be social time after the service. All are welcome.


Sunday, December 28, 2003
REMEMBRANCES
morning service -- 11:00 am
Lisette & David Burwasser

Once again, each of us is invited to share memories of this season with a brief story of childhood or adult remembrance of these holidays. The guided meditation that introduces this service will reflect the spirit of the ancient Yule holiday. An inter-generational service; all are welcome.

FREE TRADE
SLAVES fellowship forum 9:30 - 10:30 am
Ed Vermue, Forum Leader

This 58-minute video discusses free trade zones and the accompanying problems that have arisen with human rights, exploitation of workers and environmental degradation. Filmed on location in Sri Lanka, El Salvador, Mexico and Morocco. Drawing from the social action themes selected by the Fellowship. All are welcome.


Published monthly by the Oberlin Unitarian Universalist Fellowship:
member, Unitarian Universalist Association and Ohio-Meadville District.

Mail: MPO Box 0354, Oberlin OH 44074-0354.
Email: daveburw @ apk . net
Website: www.ouuf.org. (Bet you figured this out!)
Clergy: Rev. Don Rollins.
R.E. Director: Kim Peters.
Chair: Cal Frye.
Vice Chair: Barbara Fuchsman.
Treasurer: Virginia Erdy.
Secretary: Katie Styer.
Editor: Dave Burwasser.
Webweaver, Cal Frye.